As an experienced writer, I often get questioned by other, less experienced, writers about writer’s block.
To many it’s a mysterious condition that seems to threaten all writers as if it were a terminal disease—will I get Writer’s Block? Can I avoid it? After all, Ernest Hemingway killed himself because he couldn’t writer anymore. (Among many other problems he had—) With all the mystery (and fear) surrounding writer’s block, what is it really?
Broadly speaking, it’s the inability to write—anything. Creating (anything) is one of the most difficult human activities—and then, at times, it can be so easy. (Watch a group of young children making-up a game to play) What happens to us when we become adults? What are some of the causes behind writer’s block and what can we do about them?
- Procrastination. We’re all so good at this. “I’ll start tomorrow.” I tell new writers the hardest part of writing a novel is—starting. What to do about it: Set yourself a small reward—candy, a latte, a glass of wine, a facial, etc. Then, pick a time to sit at your desk and START. You must also set a time limit. You can take your reward after you’ve worked at writing for the time limit.
- Perfectionism. Here’s a tough one. We read stories by our favorite, great writers and admire their skills. Then, we sit down at the lap top and— We know it’s impossible for us to create the same quality of writing, so we get writer’s block. Stephen King once said: “Give yourself permission to write a really bad first sentence, then a really bad first paragraph.” Every writer starts with a really bad first sentence. You can too.
- Self doubt. “Who do I think I am to imagine anyone would be interested in reading this crap I’m writing?” Sound familiar? It leads to writer’s block. We all have doubts about our writing every time we put something on the screen. Here’s what helps me: I remember that I’m writing, primarily, for myself. If family and friends want to read it, great. If strangers want to read it, great. But, in the end, it’s a compulsion that I must do. I don’t think of any audience and I can get past writer’s block.
- I have also found that for professional writers, there is no such thing as writer’s block. Just like anyone else doing a job, a writer sits down every day and . . . writes! Often, it’s not the best stuff, but that’s why we edit as much, if not more, than we write the first draft.
- Here are two books that could be helpful for you: “Around the Writer’s Block,” by Rosanne Bane. https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_fb_1_12?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=rosanne+bane&sprefix=rosanne+bane%2Cstripbooks%2C1443&crid=2JH4MSR3BZXHS Also, “The War of Art,” by Steven Pressfield: https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_c_1_18?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=stephen+pressfield&sprefix=stephen+pressfield%2Caps%2C220&crid=LP7544VGTR2M&rh=i%3Aaps%2Ck%3Astephen+pressfield